This is a woman who thought it was funny that i couldnt have children…..putting up a pathetic meme to celebrate the fact i couldnt have children, without even asking the reasons why.
and put up a pathetic apology when i said cancer is great isnt it.
The post they put up was removed in minutes, by them, and an apology given. They've not raised it again, you have. It's up to to decide whether you accept the apology given. I mean who asks if you can have kids and then why can't you when you say you can't. Much less ask the same questions on a forum such as this.
It, cancer, is an illness that doesn't care who it gets or where. Money can't guarantee it'll never get you, it doesn't do money, care about where you were born or where you live.
I've replied to their face, and over the keyboard, with less vitriol than you. My stock answer has been "No, cancer took my nuts in 99". Not the best of answers, but it does stop similar questions being pointed in my direction once that type of answer has been given. They know about the cancer, so saying they didn't can't be an excuse, if they tried again. In your case, I'd say no-one knew about the cancer, they do now so lets see if anyone else mentions either again.
I'm currently one of the 3,000 men in the UK with breast cancer. Treating it isn't straight forward in my case, due to epilepsy. Previous problems on the operating table are making them wary of putting me on one again. I'm on medication to counter the side effects of the anti-epiletic medication. You know what, there's side effects to that medication as well.
Born and brought up with it, epilepsy, so I think I've heard most of the insults possible and the excuses that have been used for them. I'll die with it, not because of it. But SUDEP still looms large.
I'm with Winjim on this, wind yer neck in. Stop using the cancer as an excuse for how you answer and behave towards folk. You got an apology, doesn't appear to have been accepted and the offending post removed. At the least accept that much. It will never be an excuse for the posts you're making, so don't try and use it as one.
And if you feel like telling me to grow a set, or man the "F" up or MTFU, I'll say I can't. Nature only provided me with the one set and no ability to reproduce a replacement set.
I now return the thread after this diversion to that of the thread title.
Sorry for the sidetracking